Seen from the Start

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Purpose isn’t something your child chooses or discovers by accident. It is already there.

Every parent has looked at their child and wondered: Who will you become? We look at their gifts and wonder where they will take them. But in Seen From The Start, author and leadership coach Dolly Ohanyere invites you to make a fundamental shift in posture. Instead of asking what your child will become, begin asking: “Who did God make them to be?”

Designed specifically for parents of children ages 3 to 14, this guide is built on the conviction that every child is created with intentionality. In these pages, Dolly blends the science of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) with the depth of Scripture to help you decode the early language of purpose.

You will learn that a child’s “intensities” or “obsessions”—the way they organize their toys, their deep empathy for others, or their need to take things apart—are not random traits or distractions. They are the clues to a divine wiring that was settled before they were born.

Inside this guide, you will discover how to:

• Identify the Clues: Move beyond career planning and start recognizing the “intensities” that signal your child’s natural design.
• Affirm Their Wiring: Learn to protect and nurture your child’s unique sensitivities before the world has a chance to bury them.
• Build a Foundation: Foster a sense of self-awareness and spiritual groundedness that will serve them for a lifetime.

Dolly Ohanyere—a lawyer, HR professional, and founder of The Healthy Marriage Hub—has dedicated her life’s work to the intersection of identity and purpose. As a mother and certified media professional, she understands that helping a child find “what was never lost” is more than a task—it is a calling.

This book is not about pressure or performance; it is a mirror for you to hold up for your child, helping them eventually recognize, accept, and rediscover who they truly are.